Experience Archives - Bounded Excess

Shitting your pants

May 23, 2018May 18, 2022 by Sam

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So, most people can't really understand depression. They can kinda relate, but unless they've been there, it's hard to really understand. Something like 1 in 8 people will experience it in their lifetimes though, which is a lot, and that means that most people will probably have loved ones who…

The Past isn’t just the Past
It can come back and bite hard as we learn and grow

February 14, 2018May 18, 2022 by Sam

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t's those one of those moments I'll never forget. Walking into my home one evening, she was sitting at my computer. The room was dark and the light from my messenger account open on the computer screen coloured her face. That face looked back at me, visible surprise and pain…

Loving relationships are simple really

April 28, 2017May 18, 2022 by Sam

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t may seem complicated, but I'm convinced it's not. While I'm not religious, I have massive respect for something that Carl Buehner said about people "They may forget what you said—but they will never forget how you made them feel." When someone needs you and you are there to support,…

Thinking about leaving her for someone else?
OK, but read this first!

April 22, 2017May 18, 2022 by Sam

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ow, there are a lot of reasons to break up with someone and they are all valid - it's always up to you to take steps to be happy in your life. And choosing who you share your life with is a huge thing. Still, this is a cautionary tale.…

I Woke up Angry Today (And that is Fantastic News)

April 21, 2017May 18, 2022 by Sam

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've been feeling progressively irritable in the last month and it has finally led to full on anger. My entire body is in the midst of a rage right now and I will shortly head to the gym to beat the fuck out of a padded wall. I'm not sure…